Identity, Difference, and Interpersonal Relationships: (Re)Considering Interpersonal Communication Ethics

Most interpersonal scholarship does not explicitly discuss ethics, yet there is a wide variety of views on interpersonal communication ethics. This chapter first provides a general overview of these views, summarizing four common perspectives on interpersonal ethics. First, principles or rules perspectives focus on guidelines for ethical communication, such as being honest. The second, outcomes perspectives, examine how interpersonal ethics can be understood based on whether the communication results in positive results for communicators. Third, context perspectives recognize that variations in people and situations mean the relevant principles for ethical communication depend on the particular circumstances. Finally, relationships perspectives focus on communication practices that foster good relationships as well as positive outcomes for relational partners. The next section of the chapter raises key questions for interpersonal communication ethics, including considering (1) the role of intent in communication, (2) how to accommodate difference in ethical interpersonal communication, and (3) what responsibilities people have to others outside their close relationships. The conclusion is guided by an intergroup communication perspective which highlights the need to consider the roles of cultural and social identities in any treatment of interpersonal communication ethics.